Thursday, January 12, 2012

Act Like A Ladi...Dress Like A Diva: Cream of the Crop


Act Like A Ladi...Dress Like A Diva is a series showcasing my outfit of the day (OOTD).

This look features my favorite sweater of all time.  I bought it online a few years ago from Ann Taylor Loft and I fell in love as soon as I put it on for the first time.  I love the details down the front, it really draws the eye in and I think it's pretty flattering.  Because the sweater is the star of the show, I paired it with all black everything else.  



Sweater: Anne Taylor Loft / Black Jeggings: Old Navy / Boots: Aldo (purchased online) / Jewelry: Charlotte Russe  (earrings)

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

A Ladi's Tresses: "Twist-Out, Pin Up" Style Tutorial














  • Start with wet or dry hair, and part hair from ear to ear to divide into 2 sections (one in front, one in back)
  • Take back section of hair and create individual twists (I usually do about 9 twists in the back, 3 rows of 3)
  • Take front section of hair and part into 3 sections of equal size. Part from your forehead straight back to the first ear-to-ear part you did. 
  • Take the front right (or whichever side you like to wear your hair) section and make 3 small flat twists going back towards the middle of your head. 
  • Take the front left section and make 3 small horizontal flat twists going down to the side of your face. 
  • Take the middle section and make 3 small flat twists going to the left and laying over the twists you made with the left section of hair (It should look like two layers of twists).
  • Roll the ends of each twist using your roller of choice ( I use small perm rods).
  • When you are ready to style, remove all the rollers and untwist your whole head. 
You can stop here and rock a twist-out. At this point, my hair looks like this:

To create the pin-up, keep reading:

Friday, January 6, 2012

New Series: The Blueprint





















The Blueprint is a series highlighting celebrities who epitomize the word style.  Each look is a lesson in fabulous...watch and learn! 


Every day I come across pics of celebrities and either admire or cringe at their fashion choices.  I created this series The Blueprint to highlight the positive and get ideas to incorporate into my own wardrobe. There is no better person to start off with than the First Lady of Style herself, First Lady Michelle Obama.  Her looks are always perfectly tailored with feminine silhouettes, and smart use of color.  I love this cobalt blue dress she wore to the White House Hanukkah celebration:

Source: Essence.com

Monday, January 2, 2012

2012 Goals


It's 2012, and from the looks of things on Facebook and the blogosphere, this is going to be a year of change for so many people. I've seen countless posts and status updates sharing lists of New Year's Resolutions.  Like many people, I have things in my life that I want to work on, but instead of coming up with resolutions, I like the develop goals with a timeline and action plan to help me to achieve them.  Here is my list of health and beauty goals for 2012, along with ideas for behaviors that I can do to reach my goals:

Limit restaurant meals to 4x/month or less
  • Plan a week’s worth of meals ahead 
  • Have a cooking day (probably Sunday) where I prep foods for the week and cook enough meat for a couple of days worth of meals
·         Develop healthier eating habits
  • Drink water 90% of the time instead of sodas and sugary juices 
  • Swap my fave junk food (potato chips, Krispy Kreme doughnuts, brownies) for lower-calorie indulgences that I enjoy (homemade smoothies, yogurt, parfait, fruit) 
  • Keep food diary via My Fitness Pal app
·         Work out 3x/wk
  • Use breaks at work to power walk 
  • Do something active w/ fiancĂ© a few weekends out of the month 
  • Develop hobby that is not sedentary (or involve shopping) 
  • Workout first thing when I get home in the afternoon so I don’t have a chance to sit down and get comfortable 
  • Track workouts using My Fitness Pal app on iPhone 
  • Follow a different work out program each month to help w/ variety (Jillian Michael’s 30 day shred, Wii my fitness pal workout, couch to 5k, biggest loser bootcamp dvd plan).
·         Develop my health/wellness “glam squad” (family dr, dentist, poss dermatologist & masseuse)

·         Retain hair growth (4+ inches)

  • Moisturize, seal & set my hair every night (if wearing hair loose) 
  • Protective style at least 2 week of every month (mini twists, bun, or wig/clip-ins) 
  • Deep condition weekly 
  • Try henna to increase strength 
  • Straighten no more than 4 times in 2012 
  • Do scalp massage
Limit use of pain medicine to 4x/mo

  • Natural methods for headaches, cramps, etc. 
  • Try to get adequate sleep 
  • Avoid activities that I know will cause headaches (ex. waiting too long to eat, using the computer for too long, reading in the dark)


In addition to these goals, I have other things that  I want to do to improve my quality of life.  I want to be a better person, a happier person, and live a life that is more in line with my values.  These aren't specific goals, but thoughts and actions that I will commit to doing to become the person I want to be.  
  • Replace negative thoughts with positive one
  • Stop Stressing the small things
  • Leave work stress/thoughts at work.
  • Consider motivations behind what others say/do instead of taking things personal
  • Read 10+ books a year
  • Give away 50 items that I no longer use, want, or need. 
  • Read something life changing every day (quote, tips to improve life in some way, article, book chapter, etc) 
  • Find my “passion”/”purpose” 
  • Travel to a new city or state 
  • Treat others as I want to be treated
  • Limit gossip websites, reality shows, anything that promotes negativity.

Sunday, January 1, 2012

Act Like A Ladi...Dress Like A Diva: NYE!



I hope everyone had an amazing New Year's Eve and is ready for the amazing things that 2012 has in store! For my first post of 2012, I want to share pics of the winning NYE outfit: 





 Jacket: NY&Company / Dress: Kmart/ Shoes: Nine West / Tights: J C Penney / Jewelry:  J C Penney  (necklace, ring & bracelets)

My fiance and I went to a party at a hotel.  With VIP tickets, we were able to check out 5 different ball rooms with a different musical vibe and check out a live cover band.  I felt like a million bucks...until I sweated out my hair and had to take a give my feet a break from the heels LOL.  Overall I had a great time and definitely brought the new year in RIGHT!